Automotive – Referral sales script: Get 3 referrals before the customer leaves your dealership
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Updated March 23, 2026
When asking for referrals, don’t say, “Download this app later.” Help the customer download the app, sync phone contacts, and send at least 1 warm introduction during the conversation.
North star: Target is 2-3 warm introductions per person during the same conversation whenever possible. This is critical. The first introduction removes fear. The second and third build momentum. Momentum creates habit.
Tone guidelines:
- Confident
- Casual.
- Fast.
- Never apologetic.
- Never optional.
- Never a long explanation
This should feel like: “Let’s do this real quick.”
Step 1: Ask for a referral
| YOU | “Hey [CustomerName], real quick before you head out, do you have 5 more minutes? I want to show you something.” |
| CUSTOMER | “Yeah, sure. What’s up?” |
| YOU | "[CustomerName], most of my business comes from introductions from customers I’ve taken good care of. If I made it really easy, would you feel comfortable introducing me to 3 people in your circle so they know who to call if they ever need help with a car? I’ll take care of your friends like they’re family, and I’ll look out for them.” |
| CUSTOMER | “Sure. No problem.” |
Step 2: Help them download your referral app
| YOU | Position it as standard and fast “Great. A lot of my customers use this app. Let me show you real quick. It makes introductions really easy. Do me a favor, scan this QR code. Let’s download it real quick. Oh, and if someone you introduce me to buys a car from me down the road, you'll get [$Amount] as a thank-you. We will add the money to your Venmo account that you connect to this app.” |
| CUSTOMER | Wait for the customer to download the app. |
Step 3: Help them send their first introduction
| YOU | “Perfect. Hit sync to see your contacts. That just makes it one tap.” |
| CUSTOMER | Wait for the customer to sync phone contacts. |
| YOU | “Think of someone you’d text today.” Alternatives: “Think of someone you talked to last week.” “Think of someone you talked to this month.” “Think of people who ask you for advice.” DO NOT SAY: “Who do you know shopping for a car? Most people will say, “I can't think of anyone.” The goal is not to find someone buying a car today. The goal is to get your name and contact information in front of more people, so more people know who you are and call you when they need a car. |
| CUSTOMER | Wait for the customer as they are scrolling through |
| YOU | “Tap them. The message is already written. Hit send. That’s it. ” |
| CUSTOMER | Wait for the customer to send. Stay silent. Smile. |
| YOU | “That’s it. That’s how easy it is. That’s how you get paid. Anytime you hear someone say, ‘I need a car,’ just use this app to introduce them to me. The ‘Referrals’ tab shows all your introductions, and the ‘Wallet’ tab shows how much you’ve earned and when you’ve been paid.” |
Step 4: Help them send 2 more introductions
| YOU | North star - Immediately say: “Want to send 1 more while we’re here? It takes like 5 seconds.” OR “Let’s send 2 more while we’re here. Takes 5 seconds.” |
The real leverage
The difference between 0-1 referrals per person and 3 referrals per person is whether you stand there for 60 seconds longer. That’s it.
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